Saturday 16 July 2011

Necklaces are for girls.... or are they?!

What is it with adults who think it is ok to say disrespectful things to children??  Is it because they are children?? Would they say the same thing to an adult??

I wouldn't call myself a hippy Mumma, although a few narrow-minded people do.  However, after 2 weeks straight of being up with my baby boy B every night, someone recommended Amber necklaces.  So, although i was skeptical, i was also sleep deprived and willing to try anything at this point and i got one.  I would never go back now.  The first night wasn't much different but the second night he was wearing it we both got a full night sleep and he was back to my happy, smiley little man again during the day.  So i got my eldest (2 years) one for when his back teeth came through.  He loved that he had the same as his brother.  Then i started to feel left out (lol) and had been suffering from migraines for a while so got one myself.  I have not suffered a migraine since!

Fast forward to now.  I still wouldn't be without the amber necklaces and would still recommend them to anyone but....... why must people give me or my boys such a hard time about them?  

I have had people, including family members ask my boys if they are girls because they are wearing a necklace!  I have been called a hippy.  I've been told it's all in my head that it's working (?!) and i've been told  i'm setting my boys up to be bullied by making them wear the necklaces!  Personally, i love how they look.  My boys are so gorgeous they could carry off anything.  I bought them to help with teething although many people think i got them 'to make a statement about your wacky parenting ways'.

I find these people's opinions very interesting.  You can tell a lot about someone from the way they criticise your choices about how to bring up YOUR children.

I mean, wanting to protect your children from unnecessary pain is just absurd, isn't it?  I don't know what i was thinking!